Real Queer America: LGBT Stories from Red States (Paperback)
LAMBDA LITERARY AWARD FINALIST
In Real Queer America, Allen takes us on a cross-country road-trip stretching all the way from Provo, Utah to the Rio Grande Valley to the Bible Belt to the Deep South. Her motto for the trip: "Something gay every day." Making pit stops at drag shows, political rallies, and hubs of queer life across the heartland, she introduces us to scores of extraordinary LGBT people working for change, from the first openly transgender mayor in Texas history to the manager of the only queer night club in Bloomington, Indiana, and many more.
Capturing profound cultural shifts underway in unexpected places and revealing a national network of chosen family fighting for a better world, Real Queer America is a treasure trove of uplifting stories and a much-needed source of hope and inspiration in these divided times.
About the Author
Samantha Allen is a GLAAD Award-winning journalist and the author of Love & Estrogen (Amazon Original Stories). A former senior reporter for The Daily Beast, she has been published in The New York Times, Rolling Stone, and Out, among other places, and has appeared on MSNBC, CNN, and NPR's On the Media. She received her Ph.D. in Women's, Gender, and Sexuality Studies from Emory University in 2015 and was the 2013 recipient of the Kinsey Institute's John Money Fellowship for Scholars of Sexology. She met her wife in a Kinsey Institute elevator -- a true queer love story.
"Real Queer America is a book necessary for anyone in -- or allied with -- the queer community, especially those of us who see the bad news day after day. [Allen is] sharing the beauty of the spaces that LGBTQ+ people have carved out for themselves, and she's giving credit where credit is very much overdue, because it's the queer folk who live and stay in red states -- whether by choice or due to a lack of options -- who have to survive there and work to make them better."—Los Angeles Times
supposedly red states living their lives with resilience and joy. This
moving journey starts out in Utah--but Allen's road ultimately takes the
reader to the center of her heart. Surprising, inspiring, and
difficult to capture universality in a way that also celebrates uniqueness.
Allen does so through the diversity of the individual stories she uplifts,
giving any reader an entry point into LGBTQ lives... [She writes] with a
vulnerability and humility as approachable and accessible as it is profoundly
"It's kind of like a trans Travels with Charley in Search of America, but without Steinbeck's lightly misogynist depictions of women and meandering, stream of consciousness. As Samantha Allen travels across the country's reddest states and perhaps the most unsafe for queer people, she unearths a humanity that the midwest and south are rarely afforded. Queer people exist everywhere, not just cities, and this book is a fierce testament to that."—Out Magazine
like Indiana, Texas, and Tennessee, precisely because there's still so much
advocacy work to do. Allen's openness about her personal story--including
growing up Mormon, living an angst-filled double life in Provo, coming out as transgendered,
meeting her wife in an elevator at the Kinsey Institute, and undergoing surgery
to get a vagina--invites respect. She writes with loving curiosity about other
people in the LGBTQ community and blends this with national-level reporting on
political and historical LGBTQ issues."
is an essential part of the movement and a new brand of queer hero for these dark times.
In the face of the alt-right and crypto fascists, I say- Queeros
travelogue and thoughtful exploration of queerness in America, journalist Allen
retraces her transformation from a Mormon missionary in Utah to a transgender
woman living happily in rural Florida...Queer readers will nod knowingly at the
descriptions of finding gay-friendly hangouts and questioning whether public
hand-holding is safe in a new area, and readers without that experience will
still enjoy Allen's charming, humorous recounting of the ultimate road trip
through rainbow-colored America."
"Real Queer Americais a delight to read...an engrossing journey full of humor, vulnerability, insight, and joy. What results is a beautiful tapestry of, well, the real queer America... Real Queer Americais well-written and well-researched, and it's a blast to read, but perhaps its most essential question is that of how complicit 'blue state' LGBTQ people are in dismissing red states as scary places for queers. The whole world is scary, for queers and for everyone. Perhaps Real Queer Americawill inspire the reader to be more involved in fighting discrimination everywhere."—Rewire
"Real Queer America ends on a note of hope, predicting that its portrait of queer lives will eventually become antiquated as America grows more and more inclusive of all genders and sexualities. But this will only happen if people of all kinds choose to create communities where we can thrive together. In giving us humanizing portraits of places that many queer people fear and will not visit, Allen has done much to close this divide, and now we, her readers, must take up this message and manifest it in our own lives."—LitHub
"Allen is smart-as-hell, but inclusive and impassioned. Hers' might not be the book all the gay boys are talking about in an exclusive NYC salon, but it is the book the rest of us can read aloud at the kitchen table with our queer family and our blood family, with our chosen sisters and our yet-to-be-educated uncles...So many wonderful books get written for the NYC and San Francisco LGBTQ community. I'm glad Samantha Allen wrote Real Queer America for the rest of us."—Lambda Literary
sheds a light on the struggles and
triumphs of rural LGBTQ+ people, and smashes misconceptions about how they
live. Part memoir, part journalism, and all heart, this is an important book
about queer communities today."
"Real Queer America might be the best travel book of the year...a must-read for all Americans."—Refinery29
"Allen's award-winning work as an LGBT journalist for platforms like Fusion and The Daily Beast is both radically empathetic and comprehensively analytical. This is a balance she has upheld admirably in Real Queer America, an exploration of queer communities in conservative parts of the country-communities that are often overlooked in conversations about what it means to be queer, American, or both. Use this title to help you chart the course of your next cross-country road trip."—Harper's Bazaar